Sunday, December 28, 2008

Sharing Gifts, the Gospel and Love for Christmas








This Christmas season I felt especially blessed with temporal needs (food, clothing, finances), the gospel and love (from family and friends, most of all Brittney). I felt a great desire to share these three things with as many people as I could. It is not appropriate for me to share all the experiences I had, but I felt the Lord guided me in who I could help and how.


Brittney bought me too many presents for Christmas. I felt like a little kid again as I opened Lincoln logs, a wooden train, and the snap pants I've been asking for since last Christmas as well as CDs and books. I gave Brittney wooden spoons, a mixing bowl, a deep skillet, running pants, the game Life on the Farm, and Santa Claus brought us a toy dairy farm set and Illinois pullovers. Just a comment about the wooden spoons. I knew Brittney wanted some more of them, so I went out and got some for her the Monday before Thanksgiving to give her for Christmas. Two days later we were having a conversation and Brittney mentioned something she was thinking of buying, and I told her not to buy anything for herself during the month before Christmas, because someone might be giving it to her for Christmas. The very next day she went out and bought herself some wooden spoons because she needed them for our Thanksgiving dinner. I laughed so hard; I had to explain to her why, even though it spoiled the surprise.

Brittney signed up to take dinner to a couple people in our ward who were unable to leave their houses on Christmas. I invited some people from my lab and other friends over for Christmas dinner. I was worried how we would be good hosts and take out the meals while it was still hot, until finally it dawned on me that we could have our guests go with us to take the meals out. We had a feast, then I took Ming Feng and Yaodong, both from China, and Andulfo, from Hondorus with me, and Brittney took the Jacks with her to deliver the meals. We tried singing "Jingle Bells" at the house I went to, it was a humble version with only one native singer. It was a good experience though for everyone. When we got home, we all played Life on the Farm, and Dr. Ming Feng won. It was a great Christmas.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Proposition 8

Our local newspaper ran an editorial a couple weeks ago wherein the author questioned why the Mormon church was so concerned about the passing of proposition 8 in California when there were so many people sick and in need of help, so I wrote an answer and it appeared in the Savoy Star today. I thought you might like to read:

To the Editor,
I applaud the passing of Proposition 8 in California. God set the standard for marriage when he commanded Adam and Eve to cleave unto each other. Children are most likely to succeed in a home where there is both a father AND a mother, neither being wholly dispensable.

The people in California are choosing to not endure a breakdown of the true definition of marriage between a man and a woman. Alexander Pope reminds us that first we endure, then pity, then embrace. Embracing an alternate definition of marriage would jeopardize propagation of the human race because same sex relationships cannot produce children on their own.

People of different backgrounds are standing together on this vital issue. Legalization of same sex marriage imposes on rights of educators, adoption agencies, and civil servants to follow religious beliefs. For example, Catholic Charities in Boston stopped adoption services because advocates and government officials challenged their right to follow their religious beliefs, placing children in homes with both a mother and a father.

The joys of marriage between a man and a woman, and the ensuing joys of having children are worth every cost. I have been married to my wife for three years now. It is hard for me to remember now how I ever survived without her. Our differences compliment each other and help each of us become a better person.

Anyone interested in learning more about why Mormons would spend so much money promoting Proposition 8, the importance of family, and what we are doing to relieve the sick are invited to talk with our missionaries or visit www.mormon.org
Sincerely,
Bruce Richards